Date Night

Very early in our marriage, Vicky and I established a tradition to help strengthen our relationship, and to guarantee quality time spent together. We scheduled a weekly “date night”. It has now been a tradition for 27 years! Since my cancer diagnosis, we are never quite sure if & when I will feel strong enough for a date, so we seize the opportunity whenever it arises. Last night we had wonderful date. We made reservations at a local fine-dining restaurant and enjoyed a romantic dinner with candlelight, white linen tablecloths, china & crystal, and soft music. We talked, laughed, and took a walk down Memory Lane as we celebrated God’s goodness in our life, marriage, family, and ministry. We also talked about plans for the future! Vacations, family gatherings, and cross-country motorcycle trips!! Afterwards, we stopped at an old-fashioned neighborhood ice cream parlor for dessert. Thanks to those in our church family who have secretly provided some gift certificates for these occasional outings.

One of the factors contributing to declining marriages in our society is the lack of time spent together. Spouses don’t communicate. Children don’t see their parents. We spend too much time chasing after the wrong things, and neglect the ones who need us the most. When is the last time you went on a date? When is the last time you took your family on a picnic? Remember, when life is over, only three things really matter. Faith, FAMILY, and Friends! Take some time this weekend with the ones you love. It will be an investment that will last for eternity! I love you!